Finding Love

You don't find love.
Let love find you.

Love is not something you get in an instant.
It's all about patience.
Most often than not, love shows itself to people who are patient enough to wait.

For me, love is just like having sex.
Both requires responsibility.
Both are not something you do just for fun.
They're sacred things.

It's just sad that people are hurrying to find love.
And then complain later on when they get hurt.

I think, for me, getting in a relationship is something you do when you're ready.
When you're serious about it.

Being loved by someone is the greatest feeling ever.
It's better if people could get to think things through rather than acting on impulse.
I know a lot of people who get into relationships just because they're lonely.
Some are acting due to their raging hormones.
Most of them, often don't succeed with love and get their hearts broken in the end.

Love, like life isn't easy.
We just have to take it one step at a time.
It isn't a race wherein you get to win a prize if you were the first one to get into a relationship.

Instead of looking for love on others, start finding it within you.
Do you love yourself enough that you would be able to share it to them?
You can't give love if you yourself don't have it.
Otherwise, it will all just be nonsense.

-A <3